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Ask Our Experts: From Breast To Bottle

Baby bottle A unfamilliar rubber teat is very different from mum - no wonder babies find the changeover difficult! Parenting expert and child psychologist Dr Pat Spungin, CEO of Raisingkids.co.uk, advises.

Raisingkids member's problem
I have an 18 week baby who I'm trying to introduce to the bottle before I go back to work. She cannot get the hang of sucking on the teat. Any ideas?

Dr Spungin's advice
There are different types of teats - have you tried varying the teat to see if that makes a difference?

Depending on the size of the hole, the milk will flow more or less quickly as she sucks. Check that what you have is right for her age. When you are ready to feed, touch the side of her face or the corner of her mouth with the teat. She will turn her head and latch onto the teat. If she latches on and then pushes it out, it's not that she doesn't know what to do - it's more that she doesn't like what she is being offered.

Are you sure that she isn't just reluctant to give up the breast after 18 weeks and is rejecting the bottle because 'she likes what she likes'? If your baby is easy-going, try giving her a bottle when she is hungry. If she is likely to fuss because she's not getting what she wants, substitute the bottle towards the end of her feed, when she is feeling sleepy and calm. How does she take water or other liquids? You could try to see if she will take a cup instead of a bottle. She is young for a cup but it maybe that she will prefer it.

Other hints - let her hold the bottle and play with it to get used to it. She may put the teat in her mouth, as she puts other things into her mouth at this age. At least it will become familiar. Maybe she senses that you are anxious about it so see if she will take a bottle from another family member, where there is no disappointment or frustration that she is not getting the breast. This will also get her used to the idea of other people feeding her
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