Why
Is Your Toddler So Shy?
You've spent your whole life meeting people and you still get nervous
sometimes.
For a toddler, socialising can be as intimidating
as addressing an audience of thousands!
Don't push it!
Forcing shy toddlers to be social, or teasing
them about it, will damage their self-esteem. Instead, make them feel
good about themselves and give them as much love and attention as you
can. Shy children often feel uncomfortable about the way they look so
make them feel attractive and likeable. The more secure toddlers feel,
the more social they will be.
Encourage toddlers to talk by listening
Some children don't talk very much because
they don't think what they have to say is important. You can't blame them
if adults keep ignoring them. When your child DOES talk to you, give your
full attention.
When shy children open up - even if you're busy
with something else - don't be dismissive and try not to make them feel
like they are interrupting. Ask questions and engage fully in the conversation.
As children get older, talk through difficult situations more, especially
when they starts at nursery or day care. Don't make out that shyness is
a major problem.
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