Many children cry when their parents drop them off at nursery school. It doesn't mean they're unhappy there.

Many children who enjoy school find the moment of parting difficult but minutes later settle down and enjoy the day.

If you are really worried, talk to the supervisor and ask how things are after you've left.

Still concerned?
Find a place where you can watch for a few minutes where your child can't see you. Chances are you'll see a busy active child, talking to friends and helpers and your mind will be at ease.

Enlist the supervisor's help
If things aren't better after 10 minutes, go to the supervisor and discuss ways of helping your child settle down more quickly. Maybe another preschooler could befriend your child and take care of them on arrival. Alternatively, let your child take something from home as a comfort object, for cuddling during low parts of the day.

It's important your child has friends at nursery. Usually the company of other children is consolation enough for the absence of a parent. Encourage friendships by inviting other children and their parents to visit.

What about your own attitude?
Don't prolong your leave-taking. It helps to have separation routines, like a little kiss and special way of saying goodbye or something that signals you're leaving -and then GO! Don't linger.

If the crying starts, try to remember that in a few minutes your child will probably be playing happily. Have reunion routines, which remind preschoolers that though you leave, you always come back.

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