Development
13-15 Yrs: Expanding Minds
Congratulations - you've survived to the teens! You may want to think
back to all the challenges you've already got through together as you
meet the new demands of the teenage years.
It's
just a phase...
Remember
that stroppy adolescence is a temporary stage too! No
matter how prepared you think you are, there will be challenges - but
they probably won't be insurmountable.
With
a sense of humour and lots of patience, you'll both come out the other
side and be able to look back and laugh at the times you've shared.
'Yeah, right!'
When you become irritated by your teenager's
constant sarcasm and supposed witticisms, try to remember that she is
just testing her new, sophisticated mental abilities. She may also develop
an interest in satire and other slightly off-beat forms of humour, which
you mightn't share. Her logical thinking ability is also maturing and
she may enjoy debating, either formally or informally, practicing her
new intellectual and verbal skills.
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